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Dear InspiraSeed© Readers,
I think this article is so
good that I want to include it in my InspiraSeed© Archives, and I thank
MVH for his vast wisdom and his ability to "tell it like it is". The lesson herein is one that most folks would be wise to
implement, and it certainly would change the world for the better (IMHO). Be aware that it might *hurt* a little, though, like the truth often does.
I appreciate Mark's teachings
and imagine you will as well. Anyway, enjoy and thanks again for being
part of my online family. Please write me and let me know if you like Mark's article, and if you want to see more like it. Donna :-)
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InspiraSeed© presents:
Stop Playing The 'BLAME GAME'
by Mark Victor Hansen
The Universe doesn’t owe us anything. Yet, there are many
people who believe they should be handed a - forget silver - platinum platter
with a fabulous life, brimming over with wealth and success, without having to
do anything.
It’s time to wake up and smell the coffee, folks. There’s
no nice, easy way to say this. And chances are if you don’t already know the
truth, you’re not going to like it. So, here it is – the absolute truth:
You get what you give. You reap what you sow. And the only person to
blame for your past, present and future success or failure, joy or unhappiness
is you.
THIS WEEK’S LESSON:
Stop playing the
“blame game” and create the life you want for yourself.
The only
person to blame for the life you have today is the person you see in the mirror
every morning.
We all know about the “Blame Game.” Most of us have
played it at one time or another. There are some people who could win a gold
medal in the Olympics if the “Blame Game” was an event.
You know them.
You see them every day. Their lack of success is never their fault. The person
who causes misery or failure is always someone else.
If they didn’t get
the great job, it’s not because they did or didn’t do anything. It’s the
interviewer’s fault. They were out to get them.
The bank re-possessed
their house or car? Not their fault. How can they be expected to make all of
those payments on time? The loan officer…the bank…God is out to get them.
If the relationship didn’t work out, it’s not their fault. It’s the
other person’s fault. The other person was just using them. They had nothing to
do with it.
And I’m not saying we can control everything that happens to
us. There are terrible crimes - mugging, rape, assault, murder, etc. - committed
every day. These horrible events are completely beyond our control. But those
are not things I’m referring to.
When it’s all said and done, we are
the reason for our successes and failures. It’s time for everyone to take
responsibility for their lives, no matter the condition.
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Be passionately on purpose about your right
livelihood.
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 THIS WEEK’S ACTION STEP
I'd like to offer an exercise to complete in
the week ahead:
Watch your language. Words have power. Use your power
wisely. Use your power to bring success and light into your life. Use it to
stamp out failure and darkness around you.
For the next week I want you
to consciously be aware of every word coming out of your mouth. In other words:
Think before you speak.
If someone asks a question, pause for at least
five seconds before you answer someone. (Count to five in your head if you have
to.) Not only will it let them know you’ve listened to what they just said -
those five seconds will allow you to process what you’ve just heard, censor any
negativity or blame about to come out of your mouth, and create something
positive to say instead.
If you accidentally say something negative or
play the “Blame Game,” correct yourself immediately…verbally. You have put the
words out into the Universe, so you must put the correction out there also.
For example: If you are having a conversation with a co-worker about a
raise you didn’t receive and you say, “No, I didn’t get the raise. I work my
fingers to the bone. My boss is trying to keep me down.” Immediately change
your tune and take responsibility and show initiative: “I haven’t yet
received my raise. Maybe it was a misunderstanding that stopped me from getting
a pay increase, or perhaps my boss needs to identify how I need to improve in my
job performance to deserve a raise.”
A negative, blaming attitude will
get you nowhere.
In addition to being conscious of your language, I want
you to keep track of (in a journal or notebook) the instances you are tempted to
say (and actually speak) negative things or put the blame on someone else for
misfortunes. You will be amazed at the number of entries you have at the end of
the week.
Language is a powerful tool; practice using it wisely.
See you next week!
Mark Victor Hansen
Rich Results is a fr'ee weekly column published by Mark Victor Hansen
&
Associates, Inc. ©2002
Mark Victor Hansen
America’s Ambassador
of Possibility
PO Box 7665, Newport
Beach, CA.
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www.markvictorhansen.com
TO SUBSCRIBE or UNSUBSCRIBE to Mark's "Rich Results" go to http://www.markvictorhansen.com/rich_results_form.php
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I hope that you enjoyed this article, and if there is anything you want
expanded on or more in-depth, let me know and I'll do my best.
Email
any comments on this subject to me if you wish to do so. I always
enjoy hearing from you! And, as always, I wish you profound success in
everything you do in your life.
Blessings to you,
Donna Maher RN
Publisher InspiraSeed Ezine
InspiraSeed
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spammers. *yikes* I wish they'd all find each other
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eliminate each other. That would be a gigantic example of 'poetic justice'.)
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seeing innocent people getting hurt by the heartless, greedy folks who
perpetrate these schemes.)
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